Last night I had a dream I was pregnant. I can’t remember if I had just found out but I wasn’t showing yet. What I remember about the dream was telling myself to believe. I decided this was going to be the one. I was pregnant and I was no different than any other pregnant woman. It didn’t matter that my journey to this pregnancy had been different than other women.
I had made it and I was pregnant and would be having a baby.
When I woke up I felt very happy. In my dreams I can be positive so why not be the same way when I’m awake? My goal is to be positive. I believe this next cycle can bring us some answers but could also bring us our baby. It’s so hard waiting for the consultations and everything to be in place to start again. I have to be patient and believe the timing will all be perfect.
The thing I realised today is we can be positive in our dreams because our sub conscious and ego aren’t pulling our minds in different directions! The moment we wake up, the what ifs start and they puncture holes in the positive. Eventually, they keep putting more and more holes in until there is nothing left!
I got an excellent tip for stopping that today – when the negatives hit, just say to yourself “I wonder what my next thought will be?” Suddenly, you’re brain can’t think of anything so it’s a great way to stop yourself falling into the negative cycle! I’ll be trying that from now on!
Thanks Fiona. I’ll have to try that.